Becoming And Being Mother: Navigating Pain, Love, And Care Across Cultures And Literature
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This paper explores the multifaceted concept of motherhood, examining its significance across various cultures, religions, and literary representations. It delves into the diverse portrayals of mothers and motherhood, highlighting the intersection of pain, love, and care in the process of becoming and being a mother. Drawing from religious beliefs and cultural traditions, the paper demonstrates the central role of mothers in shaping societies and philosophies. Through an analysis of J.M. Coetzee's literary works, particularly his depiction of mother characters, the paper explores the complexities of motherhood, including the painful process of pregnancy and the transformative journey towards becoming a mother. Furthermore, it discusses Coetzee's narrative approach, which challenges conventional structures and offers a nuanced understanding of human existence, where truth emerges from conflicting perspectives and nuanced interpretations. Ultimately, the paper emphasizes the dynamic nature of motherhood and its profound impact on individuals and societies, transcending simplistic notions and inviting readers to engage with its complexities
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